How often have you felt stuck, overwhelmed, or alone in a room full of people with whom you shared a caring relationship?
Experiencing unblocked creativity, personal spiritual and material cooperation, self-determined motivation, and openness to connect with others in an authentic way. How can that NOT be a beautiful feeling and personal experience that derives its quality from social integration rather than separation from others? Humans are social beings and pain, fear, embarrassment and a host of other barrier causing obstructions set the stage for your life performance for a solo act. When was the last time you wanted to keep any accomplishment or good experience to yourself? It is the lack of personally fulfilling experiences that leads humans to withdraw from opportunities or situations that may require them to share their disappointment. Who wants to share disappointment? Most do not want to express the lack of accomplishment, discouraged thinking, or diminished hope with others thus it slowly becomes easier to withdraw and limit communication with others. However, the withdrawal process is the life circumstance that started the muting of your own voice of “Damn it I matter!”; self-worth, self-confidence, and authenticity. Finding your voice begins with knowing through right action that you matter just because you exist. You matter to yourself regardless if not to anyone else. Mattering to yourself first, is where the process of mattering to others start.
The general American culture is currently about mimicking. Many people identify with successful others and begin to carve out a process to meet success based on that perceived model of success. No matter how many times a person tells their personal story of success, the listener is not getting the full story and become enthralled in a romanticized idea of success pursuit. The issue that is often overlooked in this scenario is the passion and autonomous motivation of the person perceived as successful. You may be autonomously motivated to do what that person accomplished in essence; respected status, significant to many people, and/or in control of their life’s time. Finding your own voice entails identifying several things and Worthy 4 Success will mention a few here: (1) what are your top personal values that guide your behavior? (2) What status do you want your life performance to represent? (3) What are you willing to do to make achieving that status a reality and a major goal? (4) How does your plan of action fulfill your personal important values?
Take ownership of your life and finding your voice flows naturally. Many people are able to recognize their obstructions when they start this process and journey of an enhanced life performance. The way that you perform your life impacts your thoughts and habits more than what you think about alone. The thoughts that you put into action must be guided toward your most wanted outcomes or major aim in life. Building confidence to find and employ your own voice stops that mimicking and starts the process of identifying support. Support may come from other’s life stories, significant others, teachers, coaches, employers, and even some strangers who you authentically meet standing in line at Dunkin Doughnuts. Worthy 4 Success provides many supportive products and services for those wanting more from their life performance. Each person is unique and powerful in her own right and without her voice being heard we may be losing out on new innovative discoveries, performing arts entertainment, and even better and more intimate relationships. “Success is a choice and to succeed requires support, right choices, and right actions!”
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